1. Year C / 26th Sunday / Ordinary Time          
    Readings: Amos 6.1a, 4-7/ Psalm 146 (R/v 1b) / Timothy 6.11-16 / Luke 16.19-31


    There is an elephant in the room.

    This is a phrase in the English Language we call a metaphoric idiom.
    It means that there is an obvious truth that is being ignored.
    It also suggests that there is an obvious problem 
    or risk no one wants to discuss.

    I would like to suggest that there is indeed an elephant, or two, 
    present in all our lives.
    It is one that we often shy away from talking about honestly, 
    let alone engage truthfully. 

    Almost all of us often run away from it,
    or we try hard to ignore it as best as we can, like it is not there.
    Sometimes, we cleverly talk about this elephant 
    through another person’s experience of it.

    We are however being challenged to confront this elephant 
    this morning through the parable of the rich man and Lazarus
    in our gospel reading from Luke.

    I believe most of us know this parable well. 
    We are familiar with its story. 
    And we are even more familiar with its moral teaching: 
    beware the dangers of wealth and power.

    The rich man lives an entitled life; he excludes the poor like Lazarus. 
    He surrounds himself with walls of disinterest 
    and so, he does not care to feed the needy, 
    nor to hospitably reach out to welcome them,
    or even more, to make his wealth a commonwealth for all. 

    Our sympathetic Christian hearts 
    are most understandably in solidarity with Lazarus, 
    and so, we cheer with the outcome of this parable: 

    the rich man in death is banished 
    from an afterlife of bountiful goodness 
    that Lazarus now shares with Abraham. 
    He is separated from the heavenly
    as he is cast into the netherworld to live his afterlife. 

    I don’t think our moral Christian sensibility 
    has any difficulty in judging this reversal 
    between the fortune and status of the rich man and Lazarus
    to be right and just. 
    In fact, I am sure, we judge the rich man a sinner for his selfishness.

    What divides the rich man from Lazarus at the end of the parable is, 
    as Abraham declares, a chasm that cannot be crossed.

    But the irony of this is that there was an earlier chasm 
    that the rich man could have crossed 
    and so saved his life by reaching out to Lazarus.

    Jesus tells this parable to effect a change.
    He tells this to the Pharisees to challenge them 
    to more honestly embrace the Jewish Law of loving God and loving neighbor.
    This morning he is seriously challenging us
    to cross the different chasms
    that divide us from the Lazaruses in our world
    and in this way, to save our souls

    Yet, we often don’t think of these chasms as divisions we create, do we?

    We are quick, clever, even shrewd enough
    in identifying these chasms, these divisions, 
    these obstacles that prevent us from helping another,
    as society’s fault, as faults others have made.

    Yes, there are continuing gaps in education, in economic opportunities, 
    in the justice system, in access to healthy food and clean water, 
    and in racial and gender equality . 
    And yes, these are socially constructed,
    structurally part of the realities we inhabit.

    But haven’t we also seen some chasms that divide
    that the people around us have created?

    Chasms like telling one's children in fear 
    to keep away from classmates who have two daddies or two mommies?
    Or, like joking insensitively
    about another whose skin color or gender is different?

    Chasms too like refusing to celebrate in jealousy 
    the good fortune of a neighbor or a work colleague?
    Or, like distancing oneself in self-preservation 
    when it is obvious a family member is about to make the wrong choice?

    Sisters and brothers, if we are honest enough, 
    you and I will have to admit that we too are guilty 
    of creating similar chasms that divide? 
    What might some of these be in your life?

    Worse still, we are guilty too of refusing, more often than not, 
    to bridge these chasms
    when another says, “Help me, please,”
    or, when one’s suffering eyes cry out, “Will you not accept me?” 
    or when somebody pleads, “Hold me and keep me from falling.”

    We can justify that these divides we create do protect us; 
    they can assure us our happiness; 
    they will allow us to live the kind of lives we want.
    Some will even argue that without them as firewalls 
    -- to use computer language -- 
    we will not be able to survive the world well.

    But these very chasms are in fact the elephant, or two, in our lives.
    The elephants in the room of our lives
    that we don’t want to admit to, to talk about,
    or even to want to change at times. 

    If we dare to reflect on these self-created chasms 
    with eyes of faith, however,
    we will find ourselves needing to admit that they our own selfish ways 
    of being like the rich man. 
    They not only divide us from others; 
    they numb us to another’s need for life. 

    The greater tragedy we create with these chasms we put in place is this: 
    we are not locking out those in need from our lives
    as we are paradoxically are locking ourselves out of heaven. 

    Our refusal to bridge any kind of chasm that separates and divide
    is our rejection of  the life-saving opportunities 
    these ones in need offer us for salvation.

    These ones who we want to ignore, to shut out, to turn a blind eye to
    are in fact like life-lines God throws out to save us
    from floundering even more into sin.

    Finally, I cannot help but think of how timely today’s parable is for us all. 
    Nine months after New Year’s Day,
    when we consciously or unconsciously 
    resolved in one way or another to amend our lives, 
    today’s parable is a wake up call.

    It must wake us up to the reality 
    that this reversal the rich man and Lazarus experience
    can be our own self-punishment on judgment day,
    for failing to live well our Christian lives, 
    which Jesus exemplifies, is really to give life to others.

    Indeed, the grace of honestly engaging 
    the elephant, or two, of our self-created chasms 
    that divide us from others, and more so, from God,
    is that we can more honestly grapple with that either/or reality 
    of choosing between being selfish and being selfless.

    And so to try to answer the question, “What if this parable is true for me?”
    might be the most helpful good news we can contemplate on today.

    Doing so can safeguard us 
    from squandering the opportunities 
    God will indeed continue to offer us,
    through the many Lazaruses we will meet, 
    to save ourselves for the good life with God eternally.



    preached at Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish, Dorchester, Boston


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  2. Year C / 25th Week / Sunday
    Readings: Amos 8.4-7/ Psalm 113 (R/v cf  1a;7b) / Timothy 2.1-8 / Luke 16.1-13


    I don’t know about you but I find myself challenged 
    whenever I hear or read a parable Jesus presents. 

    Today’s gospel has three parables: 
    the story of the dishonest but clever steward; 
    the saying about the man who can be trusted in little things; 
    and the saying about the two masters. 

    As I read and prayed over them, I struggled 
    particularly with the first parable, which I’d like to suggest,
    is most interesting and challenging for us to reflect on this morning.

    We all know this parable. 
    A steward has squandered away the wealth 
    his master had entrusted into his care. 
    His wrongdoing has come to light and he will lose his job. 
    He then makes deals to reduce the debts others owe his master. 
    He does this to increase his own chances that the debtors 
    will be good to him when he is jobless. 
    Seeing his actions, the master commends the steward for being prudent. 

    It doesn’t make sense, does it, that his master commend him? Why would he? 
    After all, isn’t the dishonest steward squandering away 
    even more of his master’s money by slashing the debts? 
    And isn’t he selfishly taking further advantage of his master 
    to secure his future when he loses his job? 
    Isn’t he again been selfishly shrewd to take care of himself?

    I’d like to suggest that we can better understand what this parable teaches
    by putting ourselves in the shoes of the dishonest steward.

    Who amongst us here has not made a mistake 
    and found ourselves in a situation like the steward? 

    Think of a time when a wrong choice you made 
    led you down a shameful and hopeless path. 
    Or, when a bad decision I chose 
    plunged me into depths of misery and despair. 
    We all have had these moments. 

    I remember when my friends and I kicked a soccer ball in our grade school 
    and it shattered a few glass panes. We were told not to play indoors.
    At eight years old, the anger of our teachers 
    seemed like the end of the world was just beginning. 
    And all we were praying and hoping for at that moment 
    -- besides being spared our parents’ scoldings -- 
    was to be given the chance to start over.

    Starting over. 
    It usually comes from a recognition of failure --
    a relationship that has turned cold and died; 
    a sobering realization that we are really less loving, 
    less forgiving, less charitable than we present ourselves to be; 
    a painful recognition that we have messed up and are being let go, 
    like the dishonest steward who is being sacked from his job. 

    Perhaps, in such a moment like this, 
    we have to honestly face up to the truth that our lives 
    will not be what we thought they will be, 
    nor will they turn out as we had hoped for,
    even after having invested so much in them.

    How then can we then live our lives meaningfully 
    if not, also happily once again?

    By starting over.  
    This almost always means changing anew to live as we ought to live, 
    or, taking a different direction to where we should to end up at, 
    or, even reconsidering what we must value to be more authentically 
    who we are and what our lives are meant for. 

    Perhaps, a way we can do this is 
    by not squandering opportunities before us.
    This is what the steward does by investing 
    in relationships with his master’s debtors.
    Even though he is taking care of his future,
    he wasn’t losing money for laziness or ineptitude. 
    He was losing money for a purpose: 
    to find himself friends who would care for him in the future.

    We have often heard the phrase, ‘when one door closes another door opens.’ 
    God opens doors to bless us and to move us onward in our life's journeys.
    Opened doors are God's way of telling us, 'I am with you and for you always.'

    If we pause and think of it, 
    hasn’t God always opened doors whenever you and I experienced 
    -- others shutting doors to keep us out because of a mistake made? 
    -- closing doors to deny us entry because our views are different? 
    -- slamming doors to say ‘you are not welcomed here’ 
    because who we are and what our lives stand for threatened them?

    Can it be that each time a new door opens for us to start over,
    God is offering us the opportunity to practice the kind of shrewdness  
    the steward had,
    that shrewdness to invest our well-being and happiness 
    in relationships with others, in friendships that matter?

    This is what I’d like to suggest Jesus is teaching us in this parable.
    Yes, he teaches us that dishonesty is wrong.
    But he also teaches that 
    instead of simply being a victim of our wrongdoings,
    we should be like the steward  
    and transform a bad situation 
    into one that benefits ourselves and others. 

    The steward reduces other people’s debts. 
    In doing so, he creates a new set of relationships based not 
    on the exploitative relationship between lenders and debtors 
    but on something more like the reciprocal relationships friends have. 

    Consider, then
    how our lives can be more peaceful 
    when we can cut those who have hurt us some slack 
    and begin a conversation with them.
    Or, how much less stressful our lives can be
    when we welcome the tossing and tumbling in life 
    as part of how others at home and in school, at work and in the parish, 
    can better challenge, encourage and form us 
    in our faith and for our life’s journeys. 

    Indeed, being shrewd by investing in relationships, 
    especially, in the most difficult moments in our lives,
    might be the wisest and most Christian thing to do. 

    Wise because 
    what we will seize, and not squander, 
    is the gift of relationship God offers to us in such times.
    And Christian because
    it is with and through relationships that God’s reign will emerge in our midst. 

    In God’s reign old hierarchies that oppress will be overturned 
    and new friendships marked by  fraternal love and care will flourish. 
    It is a reign wherein outsiders, 
    those whom society deems lesser, poorer, even ‘badder,’
    will now become the very ones who will save us,
    enabling us to start over
    as they welcome us into their homes in this life. 
    More promisingly, they will offer us that hope-filled glimpse 
    into God’s promised eternity 
    through their accepting embrace, their encouraging affirmation, 
    their life-giving words and deeds that empower us to live life anew.

    If this is what we can hope for
    when we seize and invest in the gift of relationship
    in the darkest times of our lives, 
    then, isn’t it good, sisters and brothers,
    to celebrate and embrace the shrewdness of the clever steward?



    preached at St Peter's Parish, Dorchester, Boston
    photo: from www.monicazuniga.net

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  3. Year C / 24th Sunday / Ordinary Time
    Readings: Exodus 32.7-11,13-14/ Psalm 51 (R/v Lk 15.18) / Timothy 1.12-17 / Luke 15.1-32


    It’s wonderful to be rejoicing, isn’t it?
    To smile broadly when you’ve accomplished a goal, 
    like graduating or buying your first home.
    Or, to savour with delight 
    the happiness of friends getting married.
    Or, to rest in that good, good joy of watching 
    your child ride his first bicycle or sing at her first school play.

    Jesus speaks to us about rejoicing 
    in the three parables that is our gospel reading today. 
    He calls us to rejoice by welcoming back the lost.

    His invitation might seem simple, easy to do, 
    something you and I can say with confidence:

    Yes, I’ve rejoiced when I saw the lost who are hungry, homeless and hopeless 
    being fed by those who cared.
    Yes, my family and I do give thanks that those who are lost
    because of society’s injustice, intolerance and inhumane concern 
    still have enough to live by.
    And, yes, we here in this Mass can praise God 
    for always welcoming back those who have been away 
    from our parish community for awhile and for whatever reason.

    As easy as it is to rejoice by delighting 
    in these actions of God’s goodness 
    working in the lives of the least and the forgotten among us, 

    I’d like to suggest that Jesus is challenging us 
    to rejoice not by seeing and taking delight 
    but to rejoice by taking on his way of rejoicing,
    which he teaches us this morning.

    Consider first that the source of Jesus’ rejoicing is another
    who though sinful is worth going after to save and to welcome back.

    Worth every bit of Jesus’ attention, care and compassion 
    because each is 
    good enough to complete the flock of ninety-nine sheep,
    good enough to secure the woman’s treasured possession.

    What Jesus challenges us to embrace,
    we who can sometimes be smug because we think we alone are worthy,
    is his joy-filled trust in the goodness of all humankind, especially, the sinful.

    It is this kind of trust, joy-filled, 
    indeed the real cause of rejoicing,
    that will empower us to go find, save and welcome back 
    those who have sinned.

    To those are away from our friendship because of the shame of their sin,
    away from Church because of the guilt of sin,
    away from God because of the fear that they have sinned,
    Jesus calls us to herald this good news in their lives:
    You are good, very good, as you are created and as you are,
    and God wishes to be in good friendship with you and for you.

    Often we say to one another that our Christian mission 
    is to bring this good news
    to the lost who are sidelined to the fringes of our society: 
    the poor, the hungry, the sick, the imprisoned. 
    And rightly so: they need our attentive care and concern, 
    our compassionate understanding and charity. 

    But aren’t we also being challenged to find the lost 
    amongst our family and friends?

    They who are lost because their choices have led them down paths 
    that do not always give life, that are sometimes  dark, burdensome and joyless?
    Choices like marital infidelity, pre-marital sex, financial cheating and addictions 
    that have led them to struggles and pains, guilt and shame?
    And haven't their choices led us to judge them -- may be too often-- 
    without Christ-like understanding and care, without Christ-like forgiving love?

    It is to these ones, 
    whom we love and are perhaps estranged from, 
    or whom we have been hurt and disappointed by, 
    that I believe Jesus also calls us to go from this space 
    and to seek them out and to welcome them back 
    to eat with us in our hospitality, to sit with us in our charity,
    to rest with us in our mercy, to walk together with us in our compassion.

    Consider how these then can be ways we can make real 
    the good news of another’s goodness for friendship with God.

    There is however something more that Jesus is asking us to consider:
    to take on the way he teaches us to celebrate rejoicing.

    Jesus invites us to see that 
    the shepherd, the woman and the father in the parables
    call others to rejoice and to celebrate with them
    that what was the lost has been found, 
    that the sinner who has been outside has come in, has come home.

    I’d like to think that Jesus’ invitation
    that we rejoice communally, with one and all,
    challenges us to extend and to expand our rejoicing.

    Our finding, saving and welcoming the lost and the sinful 
    cannot be our personal prize, our private gain, our selfish delight.

    Rather, the lost and the sinful we have saved
    must be a benefit, a profit, a wellspring for the common good.
    After all, does the lost not add something to the lesser 
    by enriching or completing it?
    Does the repentant sinner not bring something 
    good to the table too?

    If we believe that each one of us is good, as Jesus teaches us,
    and is gifted with a gift of the Spirit, as Paul writes in his letters,
    then the lost and sinful we have once again welcomed, accepted and affirmed
    must be celebrated for their goodness and giftedness that will help us
    to build up the kingdom of God’s goodness together 
    in our midst and for our world.

    Imagine:
    the domestic happiness that is possible 
    when an unfaithful partner is forgiven and invited to love the family again.
    Or, the assurance of an economic future.
    when a rehabilitated friend from prison or addiction is affirmed into a working partnership again.
    Or, the familial peace
    when a child whose views on politics and faith, on morality and sex, differs but is still embraced by parents into life with respect again. 

    Indeed, it is in our accepting another who has been lost and sinful
    back into our fold, back into the good company,
    that we each are trying our best to have with Jesus,
    we will delight God.

    There is a line in the Jewish Talmud 
    that describes God delighting in humankind 
    when we do the one right thing that God long awaits us to do.

    Perhaps, when you and I heed Jesus’ challenge today
    to do the right thing by seeking out, saving and welcoming
    but, more importantly, by rejoicing in, another
    because she is good and not because she is sinful,
    we will indeed delight God immensely,
    God who gives us this hope through Jesus’ parables today.

    And so, isn’t it right and just for us to gratefully ask 
    for this grace to do the right thing --
    to rejoice as Jesus rejoices in another’s goodness?


    preached at Blessed Mother Teresa Parish, Dorchester, Boston




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  4. Year C / 23rd Sunday / Ordinary Time
    Readings: Wisdom 9.13-18b/ Psalm 90 (R/v 1) / Philemon 9-10,12-17 / Luke 14.25-33


    Once there was an olive farmer named Demetrius. 
    His olives were renown
    as the freshest, the most succulent olives in all of Crete.
    Demetrius attributed his fine fruit to the soil on which his olive trees grew.
    ‘This soil, this land,’ he often proclaimed, ‘is my heaven on earth.’
    He instructed his children 
    to place some of this soil into the palms of his hands upon his death.

    When Demetrius died and rose to heaven,
    he met St Peter at heaven’s gates. 
    With the soil of his land in his palms,
    he expected to be admitted for he lived a faithful, pious Christian life.

    St Peter said, ‘Demetrius, let go of your soil and you can enter heaven.’
    Demetrius didn’t like St Peter’s invitation; 
    he found it disturbing that St Peter demanded he left go out his soil, 
    his only earthly possession 
    that he had wisely judged to be the least he could bring to God.

    So, he refused and St Peter closed the gates.
    Each day, St Peter would ask the same question 
    and Demetrius would give the same reply.
    And so, he continued standing outside heaven’s gates 
    holding the soil of Crete, his heaven on earth, tightly.

    Perhaps, you and I have experienced a similar moment like Demetrius
    when what we heard disturbed us 
    because it was not what we expected or liked to hear.

    It might have been 
    when a teacher or supervisor 
    reprimanded us for not doing our best and demanded we do better,
    or when our spouse and children or a good friend
    said with a tear and some sadness, ‘you have not loved me enough,’
    or when the homeless men just down the road on Columbia Avenue, stretched out
    their hands and with their hungry faces challenged us not to ignore but to help.

    In each of these moments,
    weren’t we being challenged to listen?
    weren’t we being invited to act in a different way?

    Being challenged to listen and to act in a different way.

    I’d like to think this is what our gospel reading this morning 
    invites us to consider prayerfully for our Christian living.   

    Luke presents 
    Jesus inviting the crowds to become his disciples and follow him.

    Yet Jesus' invitation, 
    which he offers in direct and dramatic words,
    to the crowds and to us here too, 
    is disturbing, isn’t it?

    Are we to follow him as disciples 
    by hating our mothers and fathers, sisters and brothers?
    by taking no other way than to take up our crosses?
    by giving up everything that assures us security and happiness?

    Perhaps, the question you, like me, grappled with
    as we read, prayed or heard Jesus’ three-fold invitation this morning, is this:
    'What does Jesus mean by inviting us to follow him like this?'

    We know from catechism class, from homilies preached,
    from many books we’ve read about our Christian faith,
    and from our sharing of how God has been laboring 
    for our wellbeing and salvation
    that Jesus is calling us to follow him by putting God first,
    by making our commitment to God 
    the center of how we live, of what we say and of why we do the things we do.

    We believe Jesus calls us to center our lives on God
    so that we can enjoy the fullness of the good life 
    God wishes to offer us, saint and sinner alike,
    in, with and through Jesus.

    Yet, if we are honest enough, 
    Jesus’ words must disturb us.
    They must disturb us because
    they challenge us to really listen to ourselves 
    as  we answer this question:
    ‘What is it that I find difficult to hear in Jesus’ invitation?’

    Perhaps, it is the challenging wisdom of Jesus for us
    to be much more human and a little bit more divine.

    This wisdom is really what our Christian living is about and for.
    But we so often do not hear it because we are distracted 
    by too many other voices:
    what society tells us; what communities teach us;
    what our cultures and traditions pass on; 
    what we ourselves come to believe as the rightness of our own voice.
    We hear all these but do not listen well to Jesus’ voice.

    Sisters and brothers,
    what our gospel reading today is inviting you and me 
    to profit for our Christian lives and the lives of others,
    if we but dare listen to Jesus who is calling us, 
    is to live wisely and fully in his ways.

    Let me suggest that Jesus is inviting us 
    to live our Christian lives wisely and fully
    in these three ways.

    First 
    that before our love for parents, siblings, everybody 
    must be our love of God, the Father. 
    What Jesus is challenging us to is to love as he loves: 
    we cannot truly love another unless our love helps each other find 
    God who alone completes us, who alone is the center of our lives.

    Second,
    that carrying our crosses, however heavy, painful or burdensome,
    liberates us into the salvation Jesus Christ promised. 
    What Jesus is inviting us to is to save ourselves as he saved us:
    when we carry our crosses 
    we will better empty ourselves for God’s grace 
    to help us more selflessly live for others,
    and in this way, we can experience God’s saving action in our lives.

    Third,
    that renouncing our possessions does not make us poorer, 
    less secure or unhappy.
    Rather, it frees us to live in the Spirit through whom God continues to bless us.
    What Jesus is inviting us to is to live as he lived:
    to live by being less preoccupied by what we have or must have 
    opens us to more freely receive God’s many good and even surprising gifts
    that can give us the hope-filled assurance to let go and to follow.

    ‘Will you not let go 
    and follow me into heaven?’ St Peter asked Demetrius one day.
    Tired of standing at the gate for far too long,
    Demetrius, listening, opened his palms
    and the grains of earthly soil, 
    the thousands of minute particles of his beloved Crete,
    slipped quickly through his fingers,
    falling away in a scattered mess onto the threshold.

    Demetrius teared.
    With his head bowed down, he walked through the gates.
    Slowly, he lifted his head,
    and lo and behold,
    what greeted his astonished sight
    was his beloved olive plantation, his beloved Crete
    -- only now much more beautiful, much more radiant,
    much more wondrous as it truly basked 
    in the light of God’s truthful splendor:
    'Yes,' Demetrius exclaimed, 'this is indeed the earth that is heaven.'



    preached at Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta parish, Dorchester, Boston.


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  5. Year C / 22nd Sunday / Ordinary Time   
    Readings: Sirach 3.17-18, 20, 28-29 / Ps 68 (R/v cf 11b) / Hebrews 12.18-19, 22-24a / 
    Luke 14.1, 7-14
         

    When I was growing up, I loved watching and playing soccer.
    On Saturdays, I’d watch the English League on television.
    My favourite football club was Leeds United.

    With my friends in grade school, 
    we formed our little, local Leeds United:
    dressed in the club’s white jerseys and shorts,
    we would dribble, run with the ball and kick to score goals 
    in our matches with other teams 
    during our lunch breaks and intramurals. 

    My favourite position was ‘striker.’
    I would always insist on playing that position: 
    because I believed I could run faster  with my smaller built;
    because I thought I knew all the tricks from watching soccer on tv;
    because I felt sure there was no one better than me at dribbling and scoring.

    But the truth was I wasn’t really very good.
    I didn’t score many goals;
    If I did, they surprised both my friends and I,
    not to mention the opposing team.
    Needless to say, we didn’t win many of our matches.

    Perhaps, you have had similar instances in your past, or even now,
    when you, like me, insisted on getting your way 
    or on doing it as you’d wanted it done. 
    And may be, like me, you came to learn in those moments
    the sobering truth
    that others are in fact better, stronger, more effective, 
    indeed, the right person for the job at that time.

    If we learnt anything in those moments,
    it was most probably a lesson in humility.

    Humility is the theme of our readings this morning.
    Let me suggest this theme invites us 
    to prayerfully consider our own practice of humility.

    We are all familiar with Jesus’ teaching in Luke’s gospel:
    “everyone who exalts himself will be humbled,
    but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”

    We have heard this teaching proclaimed 
    year in and year out from the ambo,
    and we have heard many a homily on it in our lives.

    But what kind of a humility is Jesus asking us to practice
    as our Christian way of living and interacting with one another?

    It is not the kind that you and I sometimes practice
    by making ourselves smaller than we are,
    smaller than what we have achieved or succeeded in,
    smaller than what we have been blessed with.
    This is not humility; it is false modesty.

    Rather, the kind of humility Jesus teaches is
    the humility of thinking of ourselves less 
    so that we think of others first,
    that we put another before us,
    that we make others the center of our attention, not ourselves.

    We often claim Jesus’ teaching on humility
    is for our individual and personal spiritual growth. It is.
    But we can only mature spiritually when we practice humility 
    in community and for building up our community.

    This is why Jesus’ instruction at the end of the gospel passage
    is equally important for our consideration

    Here, Jesus teaches that we are to make ourselves lesser, 
    lesser in the sense that we are to put others first,
    by inviting them
    who need to be fed 
    to our table of plenty,
    who need to be cared for 
    into our embrace with charity and concern,
    who need to be forgiven and loved into life again 
    into the wideness of our mercy and acceptance.

    To put another first 
    by making ourselves lesser,
    by making our wants and needs, 
    yes, even our egos to be recognized and applauded,
    secondary to others,
    who cannot even begin to repay our goodness,
    is to practice the kind of humility Jesus teaches us in our gospel reading.

    It is about practicing Christ-like humility by becoming little.

    Becoming little like Jesus did 
    when he humbled himself to become like us and for us.
    Becoming little like Jesus did
    when he lived our human way of living to understand us.
    Becoming little like Jesus did
    when he loved us selflessly to the Cross and to save us.

    Indeed, Jesus’ way of becoming little
    is his way of entering into the lives of humankind 
    so as to help us find and experience the love of God already in our lives.

    And this must also be our way of following Jesus,
    our way of practicing his kind of humility.

    You and I are being called in our Christian lives
    to become little so that we can enter into the lives of others in our midst
    to help them find, know and savour 
    God’s saving love already at work in their lives.

    How can we do this?
    Here are three suggestions for us to live this little way of Jesus
    in the coming week:

    we can be little by being putting aside my pride and saying say sorry 
    so that a loved one feels forgiven and understood;
    we can be little by focusing less on myself and my needs
    so that  a colleague or classmate’s pain is heard and consoled;
    we can be little by recognizing that I do not know everything
    so that I affirm my friend’s care and wisdom in my life.

    And when we do this,
    we will experienced, I believe, the grace of littleness:
    that our willingness to be little
    multiplies and gives another more life, more joy, more hope
    than she had ever known in her disappointment,
    than he had experienced in his despair and loneliness,
    than all of them who wondered if they are indeed worthy of friendship.

    Then, these people we have reached out to and cared for
    might say of us, as Sirach says in our first reading,
    “we love them more than givers of gifts
    because they conducted their affairs with us with humility,
    and surely they have found favor with God.”

    Now, sisters and brothers,
    isn’t such a hope-filled remark as this 
    reason enough for us to try one, or twice, or even more times, this week
    to be a bit more humble, a bit more little, a bit more like Jesus?



    preached at St Peter’s Parish, Dorchester, Boston



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