Year B / Ordinary Time / Week 11/ Sunday
Readings: Job 38.1, 8-11 / Psalm 107:23-24, 25-26, 28-29, 30-31(R/v 1b) / 2 Corinthians 5.14-17 / Mark 4.35-41
Like Job, our lives are sometimes topsy-turvy because of struggle and pain, confusion and loss. This may be because of hurt in our relationships with others, may be with God too. With faith, we turn to God for answers. Yes, we are the Jobs in the first reading who the Lord addresses to redeem.
Today's gospel reading amplifies this Good News; no other but Jesus can really hear and answer us. And He does to save us from the heart of the tempests and storms in our lives.
You and I are on that same boat with the disciples. The boat is a metaphor for the relationships we have. Unexpectedly, it may now be in darkness, rocking about wildly on turbulent waters and in howling winds. Perhaps, going nowhere, it is trapped in these maelstroms of relationship: suspicion and uncertainty, disappointment and avoidance, lovelessness and brokenness. Tossed about, we are scared, directionless, ever worried about our relationships drowning and dying. We gasp and grasp anything to keep them afloat. As we do, we realise our frailty; even more, we admit the fragility of our relationships.
Yet, like the disciples, we need one another to row to the other side. When we do, we will save our embattled relationships. We’re a motley crew, not of our choosing. God put us together to get across safely and happily, as family, as friends, as God’s people.
When our relationships are in stormy weather, we may cry out with those disciples, “We are perishing.” More than a plea for help, it’s a confession that something’s wrong with a relationship we share, even more, value. Maybe we’re recognising that we can’t go on thinking only about ourselves, and not the other. No more, what I don’t want and you want. No more, that I am right and you are wrong. No more, I love you like this and you either take it or leave it.
Today we hear Jesus rebuking the wind, calming the waters, quieting the storm and bringing peace to those afraid. Because Jesus is the miracle worker, some want Him to miraculously make our relationships better, straighten those on the mend and restore those broken.
For most of the gospel story Jesus sleeps at the stern of the boat, trusting his Father. After calming the storm, he reproaches the disciples: “Why are you afraid? Have you no faith?”
His questions have nothing to do with the disciples having no faith. In fact, they call on Him because they believe in Him. Rather, His questions wake them up to their forgetfulness that He cares for them. Listen again to those disciples: “Teacher, do you not care if we perish?” They think that Jesus is not interested nor does he care about them.
Nothing hurts us more grievously in any relationship than to hear these words: “Do you not care about me?” It's an open wound that smarts, a storm breaking down our minds, an emptiness that screams in our hearts, a hope dashed, a love smashed.
How do you and I respond when we hear those words said? What happens to our relationships when those words are said? Who are we really to one another when we say those words?
Jesus must have been painfully hurt when His closest disciples asked, “don’t you care?” He must have because He, more than anyone, cares about us.
Yet He responds. To save them from their discouragement. To dispel their fear that they don’t matter to Him. He turns up on time and in time because they are His friends. And in spite of their careless attitude towards Him, they remain His friends.
“Why are you afraid? Have you no faith?” Today Jesus asks us these same questions. He is challenging us to have faith, once again. Not faith to believe in Him. Rather, that we have faith to trust and turn to Him even more, when our relationships are dark, stormy, even lifeless.
Wise are we to want this. Jesus is truly the peace we need in every relationship. “Peace I give you, my peace I give to you.” This is the same peace the disciples needed as they battled the storm but forgot because they lifted their eyes off Jesus who was already with them.
Jesus’ peace does not remove us from strife and hurt. Nor does it resolve division or take away pain. His peace sets us free because, no matter our relationships, good and bad, life-giving and life-denying, He is with us.
His peace is not an outcome to a problem solved or a reward to achieve. Rather, Jesus’ peace is the assurance that in Him we will know God is with us, totally for us. “I am with you always.” His peace is ours, if we turn towards Him. Even more, when we make real his commandment: “love one another as I have loved you” (John 13.34).
His way of living transforms every relationship; his manner of loving redeems all relationships. Then, there’ll be peace amongst us. That peace the world cannot give. That same peace rooted in, expressed by, celebrated as the love shared by Father, Son and Spirit in relationship. Here is peace, the fruit of belonging together, of loving each other, of living in communion together.
Isn’t this the peace we yearn for in every relationship we have and hold, we cherish or hope for?
Today Jesus is helping us find faith in each other again. Faith begins when we realise we are in need of salvation. Relationships remind us of this truth. We cannot be self-sufficient, not self-absorbed; by ourselves we founder. In faith and salvation, we need the Lord, like the wise men needed the Star that led to Jesus. On earth and in daily life, we need one another to row the boat to the other side.
And if we want peace as we interact, care and accompany one another, invite Jesus into the boats of our relationships. Then, hand over our fears, disappointments and pains about them to Him. Also, surrender our hopes, contentment and joy to Him. When we do, we will, with those disciples, experience no shipwreck nor getting lost on uncharted routes because Jesus is on board with us.
So, let us trust Jesus; He always answers our pleas. He does by bringing serenity into the tempests and storms of our lives. He makes everything, especially, the broken, alright. Truly, with Him life never dies. Neither will the relationships that matter most to each of us, especially those we love and cherish as precious and to be treasured.
Shall we?
Preached at the Church of the Sacred Heart
Photo by Tom Jur on Unsplash
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